How To Live A Life of EASE

Here’s a big truth I’ve learned recently: In absence of resistance there is a big decrease in effort and struggle.

Like a tide, get in the flow of your life

What does that mean? If there’s no resistance there’s no effort? Can this be true?

You’re probably like me; you grew up believing that if something’s worthwhile it has be hard. It should be a struggle to get what you want. It’s supposed to be effort. Well, I’m learning that’s not true. If you’re struggling, there’s resistance. If there’s resistance, then you’re not in the flow. Being in the flow, being in the zone, is where you want to be. It means you’re present; you’re available to the abundance of life. This is where it’s easeful and light. We are meant to be living in ease.

How do you get this easy living? Start with acceptance. Accepting where you are right now. Acknowledging what’s going on in your life is so much easier than spinning tales of what ifs and stories of fear of the unknown. If you’re in a bad mood, in debt, tired, sick, heartbroken, or jobless, instead of denying that or wallowing in the bad feelings, begin with acceptance. Say: “I accept I’m lonely. I accept I’m scared. I accept I’m sad. I accept I’m angry.” Once you accept your current state, you can take steps towards a happier, healthier state of being.

And once you accept something you stop resisting it. When you stop resisting everything changes. From this place of nonresistance you can get clear about what it is you really, truly want. You get clear about what serves you best. Move from this place of acceptance and ease and you make better choices; the universe opens up to you.

This is when it’s really fun. Because when you’re clear about your heart’s desire, you’re in the flow. You’re putting out that vibration. You’re attracting what you want. And there is no resistance.

I’m sure you’ve had times where you put something you wanted out there, and it just came to you. How did that feel? It felt great, right? And I bet in that moment you weren’t thinking you about whether or not you were worthy of this gift. You were simply flowing with it. You were tuned in and ready to receive more.

So why aren’t we in this state all the time? Fear, worry, anxiety, anger, all of these feelings take you out of the flow. And then everything feels like a long, hard slog. If something feels like a struggle stop what you’re doing, thinking, feeling. Take a deep breath. Take 5 deep breaths!

Try this exercise: Put your head down, eyes closed, and count to 4, then raise your head to the sky, do this 3 times. You’ve rebooted your brain.

After you take those 5 breaths, after you reboot your brain, go back to that state of ease. Remember what it felt like to get what you want. Live in that feeling. And then ask yourself what you need and want right now.

Let’s all remember that life is fun. And if isn’t fun, raise the vibration. You’re one breath away from feeling better. Right now. Because now is NOW… Now is all we got.

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Tania Van Pelt is the creator of Happiness Series. She is a writer and content creator, working in film, tv, and online. She wrote the popular lifestyle book “Ageless Diet,” published in late 2015. And she is currently working on her next book. She also developed a sitcom pilot set in the restaurant business called “Employees Only TV” and is developing another web series comedy about Denver.

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  1. […] Last week I wrote about how to live a life of ease, the gist of which is resistance is futile. Embrace your life. Accept what is… Be present. Look for the path of least resistance. And always remember that the path of least resistance is one that for you, right now, feels the best. This week I want to follow up on that idea of living a more easeful life. A life where you receive everything you need and want. I think the best way to get what you want -- to even know what you want! -- is to be in the flow, in alignment with the universe, source, God, your spirit guides, your higher self… whatever you like to call it. Because if you’re even a little like me, constant reminders of how to get back in the flow are needed. I’m always looking for a way to keep myself in alignment with the universe, and these exercises I’ve been taught work for me so maybe they’ll help you. If you have any great tips, let me know! I’d love to share them with everyone at Happiness Series. I know I, and everyone who contributes to Happiness Series, always talk about being present, meditation (the easiest, fastest way to connect to source and raise your vibration!), and deep breaths (I know I do it to remind myself!). And that works, boy does that work! But here’s another easy exercise that gets me in a state of well-being and raises my vibration, so that I can get in the flow and stay there. First of all, I acknowledge the value of my life. And then before I go to sleep, while in bed, I make of list of the things in my life I appreciate. The things in my world I’m grateful for -- big and small. And then I usually go to sleep with this low-humming feeling of well-being, with my vibration gently raised. This helps me wake up with a sense of well-being. I then go through the easy list (from last night) of things I appreciate in life and my world. If you want to try this you can start with your partner in life or your friend or your family. Someone who gives you love and support. Send them a feeling of appreciation. When you do this you are in alignment. And you raised your vibration. Like me, you’re probably not going to feel a buzzy high of joy and ecstatic elation, just a calm appreciation and sense of well-being. That puts you in the perfect state to receive. My cat, the BG, is always in the flow. […]

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