Happiness in Love

Be Thankful For The Love That You’ve Got

What are you thankful for this year?

Finding love where you can this holiday season... Steve Martin & John Candy in "Planes, Trains & Automobiles" the classic holiday movie

Thanksgiving is the one time of year that each and every American can relate to. Regardless of what religion we happen to be, it’s a time of togetherness, of family, of love. Naturally, this day makes me ruminate on how much I have and what I’m grateful for. Behold the long and meandering list of things I’m thankful for.

  1. Independence
  2. Passion
  3. Clarity
  4. My Family & Friends
  5. Inner & Outer Strength
  6. Curiosity
  7. The Beach
  8. Inner Strength
  9. Desire
  10. Choosing To Work For Myself
  11. The Ability To Change
  12. The Capacity To Love
  13. That I Can Still Challenge Myself
  14. Fearlessness
  15. Hope

I may have not found the right man for me just yet, but I truly believe that he is out there. Unlike last year at this time I do not have a boyfriend. I’m all right with that for one very important reason: I now have the added bonus of self-awareness and relationship wisdom.

I am lucky to have learned that I can be alone and be happy with my singledom. I am happy that I now know how to walk away from a bad situation without regrets. I am grateful to have acquired enough inner strength that I can look at love — or a lack of it — without rose-colored glasses.

I am thankful to know that, no matter what, I’ll be OK.

Finding gratitude in all things this Thanksgiving



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About the Author: Laura Schreffler is a former New York Daily News columnist who left the world of celebrity behind to focus on what makes her happiest — love and travel. She is the creator of LoveTrekker.com — a website devoted to these two passions that she fondly calls “looking for love in all the right places.” In her spare time she likes to play matchmaker for her friends, dream about her next vacation and gaze at photographs of Taylor Kitsch. For more advice on love, relationships, and happiness, check out http://lovetrekker.com & her book "Internet Dating 101". And follow her here at Happiness Series with her weekly blog about finding love.

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